Develop deep safe relationships as foundation of being human. Beyond sensual gratification are relationships that hold the secrets to healthy fulfilling and trusting relationships.

Without relationships we really do not exist. Everything you touch, eat, drink. Every breath you take.  Every thought  is expression of your relationship with the world. Your relationship between your coworkers, your children, your significant other, your pets. Relations with extended family. Relations to quality of life regardless of your financial status.

All these relationships are under extreme stress and division constantly occupied with problems, pain and loneliness. This often leads to making decisions based on problems rather than solutions.

As you begin to seek to Develop deep safe relationships as foundation of being human, choices you make will take you further from connection or closer to your inner wisdom.

Superstition affects all decisions we make. Superstitions are beliefs that  influence you without being aware of intentions behind the old beliefs that bind us to seeking in wrong direction.

To develop deep safe relationships as foundation of being human takes a great deal of intelligence.

Intelligence is the accessed through connection to your soul, body. mind, spirit as one. You cannot learn to develop deep safe relationships from a book. You cannot learn that remotely. Relationships are about being open about who you really are. This ability the world lost thousands of years ago. Ability to recognise genuine relationships is almost non-existent. Removing barriers begins with letting go of old habits and culture. These habits make you robotic and subject to status quo.

When you actually observe people – they are conforming to principals that have nothing to do with real life. People are conforming out of fear.

Fear stops you from your ability to Develop deep safe relationships as foundation of being human.

Fear perpetuates a cluttered mind. Your mind processes up to 18 thousand thoughts per minute. Is it any wonder you have difficulty in sticking to your truth or finishing a project. Living life with unfinished tasks is what keeps you from making real connections. Finishing tasks is not a one man job. Ask someone to help you.

Ask for help from a human if you seek to Develop deep safe relationships as foundation of being human.

On line help is remote. Human connection will reveal where you are in life. When you ask for someone’s help – you’ll then discover true nature of your friendships. You’ll find who will take the time to be with you in your moments of real need. When you stop filling in time with friends and start creating with friends, your life will change.

If you finally discover how unsupportive your so called friends are contact us so we can help you through it. Or find an organisation set up to give you support in your area.

Two years ago I mentored a man. He needed to Develop deep safe relationships as foundation of being human.

Recording is to be uploaded soon.

He discovered that not one of them was available. They were all immersed in their own stuff. Too busy for anything but social stuff. Just hanging out and talking. None were there to walk the talk when we actually looked honestly at the quality of his friendships. When you honestly observe what is going on around you, you’ll see truth. Truth of your how your mind has been manipulated by the latest gadgets, beliefs, systems. These systems turn you into robotic reactive non-being. This perpetuates avoidance of real human connection. Clouds your ability to see your life for what it truly is.

Reality is that everyone seeks to fit into what is marketed as the real answer to misery. But in the process you become more divided against each other. This makes you totally reliant on systems designed to control. Soften your heart towards each other if you want to develop deep safe relationships as foundation of being human. This can be scary at first.

You have developed a thick skin to protect yourself in these challenging times. This divides people from their own intelligence.

The whole world is a make-believe world, created by some other human. This human has set themselves up as authority over you and your entire life. When you subject yourself to authority, you deny yourself. But this humans have done for thousands of years. Nothing has changed but the way authority has strengthened with it’s use of technology. This further divides humans.

Lets turn to each other to begin to develop deep safe relationships as foundation of being human and learn how to work together.