Living to Succeed in Life. People cannot be their best selves until they face up to the fact they really don’t know how to give and how to learn new ways of living.
Everyone needs a mentor in life. If you don’t have a mentor there is no chance of change of living conditions. To do that is impossible if you go it alone.
Living to Succeed requires absolute change of thinking combined with decisive action.
Authentic self shows up when you are prepared to feel uncomfortable doing things differently. When you do things differently, at first it feels seriously wrong. Because new ways of walking, talking, dancing goes beyond the known. The known feels comfortable. If you are really honest you’ll admit that the known is so boring that you left relationships or jobs because they did not offer enough variety in life. That felt confining. If you are honest; you’ll admit that you also confined your relationships to the known. In doing so, you stifled the people around you.
For that to change we need to begin to help you step outside the known. Only then do you develop courage. New situations build courage muscle. To continue your courage we must have new experiences that build some aspect of life. Not just experiences to talk about. There must be meaning.
Many travel the world for new experiences.
Reality is that; all you do is spend time and money. Travelling needs to be an investment into the future. When we travel it’s essential to travel to a destination not away from problems. When you realise that time is not replaceable, you experience conscious awakening. Then EVERY single THING that you do begins to matter.
My Living to Succeed training module takes you to destinations that build private, intimate, and business relationships.
Self disclosure is foundation of progress. Improving your social skills is foundation for Living to Succeed. Adapting to different personality is basis for personal growth. At the very core is ability to determine who in your life is contributing to your personal growth. And who to remove from your life so you can succeed. To develop life skills in relationships we need to expose ourselves to different situations.
Fear of the Unknown and what to do about it. The unpredictable, the raw newness is often scary.
Fear of the Unknown has been used to control human behaviour for millions of years. By now we should have made friends with the unknown and the unexpected. We need to find new ways of looking and the unknown. Not interpreting it – but actually seeing for what it is. With a clear mind. Not with a past experience that continues to dominate our thinking. When you look at the unknown through the eyes of love you cannot have Fear of the Unknown.
Fresh and new ways of living often last just a few minutes days or weeks and then humans revert to old habits and old fears. Because they did not involve love into the new way of being. The mind chatter. The opinion that comes from a conditioned mind prevented the new way of being accepted and enjoyed. Seeing what is, is the greatest skill of all.
Seeing the unpredictable through the eyes of the heart dissolves the Fear of the Unknown.
As we begin to open the eyes of our heart so we can see clearly. We need more than our physical eyes, ears and brain to see through the eyes of the heart. The inner person, the spirit, see beyond the narrow focus of physical senses. Yet the inner being needs to operate through the five senses. This means that the two must find a way of being together as one. When inner being and human body become one we see what the eye cannot see. We feel what the body cannot feel.
The Conscious awakening to your inner being is gateway to divine relationship with the world around us.
Fear of the Unknown is attachment to dark side of life. When you see through the eyes of the heart you fall in love with new ways of living. When you react with Fear of the Unknown you remain in love with the darker aspects of living. Because all there is only love. Connect to Choiceless Awareness. Choiceless awareness is path of inquiry. To follow the links all the way to the end. This means that not one thought is dominating your vision. When you dominate a vision with a thought, your mind remains closed. Then vision is limited to just physical vision that is divided from your heart.
We have the metoo movement where people share their pain. That in itself is not enough. The only value of that is to have that as a foundation that changes human behavior. Or it just becomes a pity party. Pity parties have a way of deceiving you. We develop ways of relating so we can create a culture that does not repeat the past. We need to learn how to bring your mind and your heart into unity if we are to be fruitful in any are of life.